Anchor & Connect Coaching, LLC


Evidence-based attachment coaching to help you break free from old patterns & chart a course to an authentically secure life

WELCOME ABOARD!

I'm glad you're here!

Master your attachment. Reclaim your peace. Build the relationships you deserve.

You've spent enough time reacting to other people's crises. It's time to drop anchor & find your own ground. I help high-functioning individuals move past old relationship blueprints and step into a life of secure connection.

  • Anchor: Stop the emotional tidal wave & regulate your nervous system.
  • Connect: Move from hyper-vigilance to authentic high-resolution intimacy.
  • Lead: Command your own life with clarity, truth & absolute intention.

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Captain's log

By Paula Rusin February 19, 2026
They all use the same Siren's Song to draw you closer, but while the melody is similar, the destination is different. So how do you distinguish a safe harbor from a shipwreck? The answer lies in the INTENTION.
By Paula Rusin January 20, 2026
How the defense mechanisms of an avoidant can sink a relationship.
By Paula Rusin January 9, 2026
Mapping the seascape of my upbringing.